Believe in the present. You only ever have this moment – because the past moments are gone and the future will eventually show up as another moment of now. Develop your mindset to become successful in life.
Is it Possible for Me to Be Successful?
Greetings, I’m Augustine Oware, the founder of Mxblog24.
Have you ever thought about why you’re not achieving the success you deserve in business or in your life?
Let me share something with you today…
As you can see, several factors prevent us from accomplishing our goals of being successful.
We all have unhealthy habits, damaging behaviors, and limiting beliefs that we hold to.
In most cases, to become successful little adjustments are needed to bridge the gap between slowdowns and improvements.
James Dolan discusses the importance of giving up things that no longer serve you.
James Dolan a man I admire so much says it is important to be able to say goodbye to things that don’t work for you in life.
And sometimes that is just what we need to get to our goals and aims to be successful
1- To Be Successful, You Need To Take Off Your Mask (Give up trying to be someone else: Be yourself)
We disguise ourselves behind a mask of who we believe we should be as a safeguard against rejection and hurt.
Despite the unfavorable consequences of your true feelings, embrace them and hold on to them.
Let us take this opportunity to accept both of our strengths and weaknesses. Our honesty is what makes us resistant.
It is the driving force behind creativity and entrepreneurship. Providing pathways for success
“Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren’t always comfortable, but they’re never weakness.” ,~Brené Brown,
2- You Must Give Up Your Future Belief
Yes, I understand… It is true that the future holds lots of hopes, dreams, and desires, but only if you prepare now… then can you enjoy all this success.
How you live your tomorrow depends on the choices you make today. Focus on what’s around you, noticing what you see, hear, taste, and smell.
It is important to remember that the past moments are gone, so this moment is all you have. In the end, the future will only appear as another moment of now.
3- Stop focusing on your weaknesses (Give up worrying about your imperfections)
Today’s society emphasizes the importance of being well-rounded.
People who are successful rarely check that box – instead, they know their weaknesses, embrace them and work around them.
Playing it safe instead of playing to win is another strategy to fix weaknesses.
Your focus should be on capitalizing on your strengths rather than fixing your weaknesses because you are most likely to grow when you are doing what you love.
“Emphasize strengths, don’t fix weaknesses.”~Timothy Ferriss
4- You Need To Stop Being Afraid To Ask For Help
Be honest enough to admit you aren’t an expert.
You shouldn’t see asking for help as a weakness, rather embrace it as your strength.
You should be honest with yourself about your weaknesses and be open-minded about what you need to do to improve.
5- You don’t need others’ approval (Give up seeking approval from others)
If you make choices based upon avoiding backlash or being afraid of disapproval from others, you will lower your chances of success.
As a result of being afraid of being criticized, your ego constantly demands attention and does not allow you to make any sensible choices pointing to your success.
Take advantage of your ego by choosing what will benefit your success over what is good for your ego.
“A truly strong person does not need the approval of others any more than a lion needs the approval of sheep.”~Vernon Howard
6- People who are successful stop playing small (Give up thinking small)
Playing small is in our nature because we all fear failure.
You must navigate your own path when you are playing a bigger game. You should listen to what your gut tells you rather than what others tell you.
By playing small, you are not serving yourself or anyone else. You should instead take on bigger challenges and venture outside of your comfort zone.
Failing and making mistakes is part of life. It’s normal to be afraid.
“If you’re are paralyzed with fear it’s a good sign. It shows you do what you have to do.”~Steven Pressfield
7- Give up the need for willpower
To be successful, you must act successfully. You should ensure your actions align with your goals.
Plan workouts so you don’t get any trouble in doing the correct actions without having to think about them.
Establish a routine for work, health, exercise, and relationships. By automating one habit at a time, you will see your behavior change.
8- You don’t need luck; give up waiting for it
To be lucky, you need to prepare. You must be ready and willing to take advantage of good opportunities to be successful.
You must not only be lucky to find them but also be ready and willing to take advantage of them.
Put yourself in the right place at the right time by preparing ahead of time.
Success comes from taking actions that improve one’s chances for great luck.
Think positively and open-mindedly. Prepare for luck before you go out and get it and you will get what you deserve.
9- Give up associating with Toxic People
You can become more successful by spending time with people who are more successful than you.
If you spend time with negative and toxic people, you might also become one of them taking you off your path to becoming successful.
Examine your own life and see if you have any relationships that you might want to avoid.
“Surround yourself with positive people. Get rid of the toxic ones in your life. You become whom you associate with.”
10- Give up trying to live up to others’ definition of success, but instead follow your passion.
The difference between feeling successful and being successful is a big one.
When you follow the dream of others, you will not be able to follow your own.
You must determine what success means to you and disregard others’ definitions.
As a result, you’ll be much happier. Do it consistently and you’ll have more success.
“There is only one success: to be able to spend your life in your own way”~Christopher Morley
To succeed, you need to know which keys to use…
Your life can be transformed in an instant or over a short period of time using the keys to success.
To attain your goals, you must strive for excellence and develop qualities that make it possible for you to attain them.
- If you put all your effort into it, then it will work; all you are required to do is be honest. I’ve listed them all below.
- Identify your goals: The first step toward success is learning what you want and how you want to achieve it.
The key is to set your goals and stay focused on them.
- Your plans should align with your goals: This is another important step. When you group them according to an action plan, you can examine them easily and know what to do at the right time.
- Once your goals have been set, you must put them into action. Taking daily steps will keep you on track to your goal.
- As the saying goes, persistence is key, because, once you’ve decided to quit, it’s all gone. Never give up on your goal until you achieve it; be determined to succeed until you succeed. NEVER GIVE UP!
Note-taking: Why It’s A Habit For Successful People
Taking notes will help you manage your time more effectively and be more productive.
Make taking notes a habit and carry a moleskin, pen, and notebook everywhere you go.
Learn how to take notes and be successful by understanding the importance of taking notes.
Note-taking has always been an important part of my life.
As a coach, I’ve used it to take notes during sessions, write down headlines that have inspired me, take notes at seminars and write ideas down.
Notes are a great way for me to get things off my mind and down on paper. Additionally, writing down these thoughts inspires me to follow through with them.
I use these notes as my own ‘creative reference point’ that I can use to take action, build ideas from, and they help me manage time better while increasing focus and productivity.
Why it is important to take notes
You can improve your skills in listening, learning, visualizing, and creating by taking notes.
Note-taking is a key component of any successful business or personal lif
“The best leaders are note-takers, best askers”– Tom Peters
A good strategy for staying focused is to take notes while attending a meeting or lecture.
People still do not take notes every day, even though they have many advantages.
There are various reasons why taking notes benefits your mental and emotional health.
- In addition, you’ll learn how to highlight key points and make sure they’re clear in your mind, and how to connect related ideas and thoughts.
- For you to remember facts more easily, you can customize your notes with drawings.
- Make it easier to summarize facts.
- You can take notes about anything you want to learn more about or investigate further at a later time.
- Aid you in keeping a written record of basic thoughts that might otherwise be lost.
Note-taking is a habit that can be developed and has many benefits.
I prefer to write everything down in a notebook since it gives the notes more meaning.
Keep a written record of the things you hear, learn, and think about.
Currently, there are several apps that people can use for note-taking. Some options include Evernote, OneNote, and the like.
In fact, the most successful people I will be discussing next have one thing in common:
They wrote down their ideas on paper.
Take a moment to consider:
How can you be sure you’ll remember everything? Does it not make more sense for you to simply write down everything you think, hear, and learn?
In addition to what I have already said, I like to use a pen and notebook because the notes have greater significance when written down.
On my kindle, I also use a similar method for reading.
It’s possible I will bookmark the page but will also jot down key points or ideas I’ve taken away from the book.
There are people who are successful and note takers, right?
The world’s most successful people often take notes as part of their daily routine.
In every area of business and in life, taking notes can help you to keep track of your thoughts and keep yourself organized.
Richard Branson always carries a notebook with him and believes everyone should take notes. Note-taking is considered one of his most important habits .
“I go through dozens of notebooks every year and write down everything that occurs to me each day, an idea not written down is an idea lost. When inspiration calls, you’ve got to capture it.”– Richard Branson
- A typist and inventor, Thomas Edison accumulated over 5 million pages of notes throughout his life. Developing note-taking skills was crucial to his success, since everything of value or importance was captured and recorded in order to be able to review it later as a powerful memory aid.
- It has been reported that Bill Gates frequently takes notes and prefers to use a yellow notebook to note down important information.
- During the filming of Star Wars, George Lucas kept a pocket notebook with him at all times as a record of his ideas, thoughts, and plot angles.
- Founder and author Tim Ferriss appreciates the importance of handwritten notes because they help him remember what’s important. It is reported that he once said, “I trust the weakest pencil more than my strongest memory.”
In addition to Hemingway and Twain, there is Pablo Picasso, Sheryl Sandberg, J.K. Rowling, Bruce Springsteen, and Aaron Sorkin among other notable note-takers.
The act of taking notes will help you to solve problems more effectively and make better decisions.
A key to successful entrepreneurship is taking notes.
The benefits can be vast once you find a method that works for you, but it might take some discipline.
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